

Do you like using toys in the bedroom? I used to be in a relationship with someone that felt inadequate when it came to me bringing in my vibrator, like would get upset and make me feel bad about not being able to get off without a vibrator or a plug. For a long time this actually made me think something was in-fact wrong me with, why was my clit not as sensitive as other women’s? Why couldn’t I cum or squirt easily? It took a while and a new healthy partner to help me understand that my body is my body, and it’s different that others in what gets me off, what turns me on, and how I can actually cum. It’s really rare that I cum without clitoral vibration, no matter how good the penetration feels, and having a partner that understands that and embraces that knowledge has been one of the most rewarding things for me personally. Everyone has different sensations, everyone’s body is different, and I feel that this is one area that communication in a relationship is incredibly important. If I would have been scared to tell Sunny that I love my vibrators and ask if I could use it when we fucked for the second time, I know that we wouldn’t be where we are today, and I can’t thank him enough for making me feel safe in exploring this space and being able to tell him how my body works without feeling shame. So we want to empower you to tell your partner what you really what to try, what you really like, what your curious about exploring- I empower you to find a relationship that you feel safe enough to not only communicate these things but to explore these things ❤️