condoms or no condoms? β yes, a bunch of you were correct i..
Added 2022-09-03 04:02:07 +0000 UTCcondoms or no condoms? β yes, a bunch of you were correct in noticing that i had condom-less sex with my man on our first date! this did not happen without a conversation, testing on both sides and documentation for proof though π i have extremely "strict" boundaries when it comes to safety in my sex life, and that includes raw dogging fun! firstly, i am not on birth control (fuck you synthetic hormones that made me feel like a basket case for a decade and a half!) but him, having already had and deciding he was done with having kids, had already gotten snipped β over a decade ago! this is one of my fave things about dating older, divorced men with kids - they're usually snipped, and neither of us want me to get pregnant, so we can have all the worry free π»back sex we want! secondly, we both got tested before our date to verify that neither of us were carrying any sneaky ickies π¦ literally, i asked to see his recent test results! π i was willing to show him mine too, but he didn't ask! it's great that he trusted me, but this is also part of the problem people - safety first π¦Ί! anyways we were all good, he was shooting blanks, and i felt safe and comfortable to proceed in sitting on his π and have all the fun!
